Friday, September 18, 2009

سته اشياء تصنع الشخصيه القويه والجذابه


إن شخصيتك تحقق لك الكثير فالجاذبية والدينامكية بوسعهما أن يجعلا الآخرين يحبونك، فالناس لا تحب المترددين والفاشلين
 ولكن ينجذبون نحو الذين يعرفون عنهم ماذا يريدون ويتوقعون الفوز ويمكنك مبدئيا أن تجعل شخصيتك جذابة عن طريق الأتي
المصافحة:
صافح الأخريين بثبات وحزم غير مبالغ فيه وابتعد عن المصافحة بأيدٍ رخوة فهي سمة من سمات غير الواثقين وكذلك ابتعد عن
 المصافحة بأيد قوية جدا فقد تشعر الآخرين بأنك إما أن تكون شخصا ً متغطرساً متسلطاً أو انك تخدعهم بقوة شخصيتك وتنقصك الثقة
الثقة:
اجعل نبرة صوتك تعبر عن الثقة حتى يصل إلى الناس قبل أفكارك فنبرة صوتك لها اثر كبير على مشاعر الآخرين وعليه
 يحدد من يسمعك هل أنت تتحدث بصوت ينم عن الشجاعة أو اليأس والشجن ولابد أن يكون كلامك واضحا بعيدا عن التردد

كن ذا لباقة:
فإذا أردت حب الناس كن شغوفا بهم ولا تجعل لسانك يخونك قط فان القدرة على الكلام مع اللباقة تزيد من قوة تأثيرك على الناس

التحلي بالصبر:
اصبر على الآراء والأفكار التي تراها في قرارة نفسك غير متفقة معك فان من أسرار الشخصية الجذابة الإصغاء الواعي المشوب بالتقدير
 والعطف على آراء الآخرين حاول أن تحاور وتناقش بعقلانية وهدوء عندما يخالف رأيك احد ولكن احترم رأيه ولا تحاول قدر الإمكان أن تجرح شعوره 

كن مرحا متفائلا:
أكثر الناس يحب المرح المنضبط والتفاؤل المشرق خاصة وقت الأزمات حيث أن الآخرين يشعرون بأنك الشخص
 المناسب وقت الشدائد فيعمدون إليك لتصبرهم وتوجههم

اهتم بمظهرك:
المظهر اللائق يكسبك احترام النفس واحترام الآخرين لك ويجعلك تشعر بالثقة والاطمئنان فالشخص الذي تشيع الفوضى
 في هندامه يشعر الآخرين بان الفوضى تشيع في تفكيره

Cisco Pursues Small Business With Linux Routers

At the heart of many Cisco enterprise routers is its IOS operating system. When it comes to small business, however, Cisco isn't pushing IOS, which it developed itself -- instead, the networking giant is new small business router is powered by Linux.

Cisco (NASDAQ: CSCO) today announced a new set of small business networking products including the SA 500-series security appliances, designed to provide unified threat management (UTM) capabilities. The SA 500-series routers provide the usual UTM combination of features including firewall, VPN, antispam, URL filtering and antivirus capabilities.

The new routers are not intended to compete against Cisco's enterprise class routers and are being specifically geared for the need of small-business users with less complexity and easier setup.
The new small business routing push comes as Cisco focuses on small- and midsized businesses (SMB) to help drive its own business during the current recession. During Cisco's most recent earnings conference call, CEO John Chambers specifically noted small business as a target area for growth.

For Cisco, the choice to avoid relying on IOS for its latest batch of small business products is all about simplicity.

"For us to be able to drive the price points in this market space and the complexity down, these are not IOS-based products," Mark Monday, Cisco's vice president and general manager of small business solutions, told InternetNews.com. "It is a Linux underlying operating system."

"IOS is a fantastic OS and there is no doubt in my mind that it's the best OS that can be offered," Monday added. "For us, to really focus on a partner that's not necessarily going to invest in learning IOS and all its capabilities, we have to deliver a simpler solution to them. So that's what we're really after."
Monday did not elaborate on the actual Linux kernel or distribution used by Cisco for the SA 500 series.

Cisco is no stranger to Linux or open source technologies. In 2008, Cisco rolled out a Linux powered server card called the AXP (Application eXtension Platform) for its enterprise ISR routers. Cisco is also a contributor to the Linux kernel and has previously told InternetNews.com that though it does customize its own Linux for some uses, Cisco is not about to enter the Linux distribution business itself.

The company has offered routing gear to small business customers before -- such as the Cisco ASR 1861 series, and some of its ASA security appliances.

But Monday said he does not see the new equipment cannibalizing Cisco's existing enterprise sales, nor overlapping with existing offerings.
He explained that the new small business focused equipment is being tailored for customers that are just starting to appreciate how networking can help out their businesses. Likewise, he pointed out that the ISR and ASA devices are designed for enterprise branch offices where hundreds of sites could be connected together and there is a need for enterprise-grade support.
Another difference between the new SA 500 series and other Cisco equipment in use among SMBs comes in terms of the new Linux offerings' focus.


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The vast small- to midsized business market has been an elusive target, but vendors are developing new strategies to get them a better hold.

For instance, Cisco earlier this year rolled out spam and virus blocker hardware technology for SMBs built from its IronPort division. Monday said the SA 500 also can configured to included e-mail security for up to 100 e-mail users, but the offering is really designed for small businesses that want a unified threat management product -- and who aren't really convinced that they want to spend the money for just e-mail.

"On e-mail security, there is no doubt in my mind that Spam Blocker from IronPort is the best product for the small business," Monday said. "It is really designed and well suited for groups of 50 users and up."
"We really differentiate on the fact that Spam Blocker is the best in the business for what it does," he added. "The SA 500 is a multi-purpose device and is consequently not the best at everything, but it is a really good product for all the things it does." 

Your XP-to-Windows 7 upgrade path: Buy a new PC

Microsoft's leaders really, really want you to forget about Vista and move right on to Windows 7. And who can blame them? Vista was a train wreck. No one who knows what they're doing runs Vista, not even the Microsoft faithful. Windows 7, on the other hand, is a worthwhile desktop operating system. There's only one little problem -- there's no good way to get from XP to 7.

Actually, that's not a small problem at all. According to Net Applications' Market Share report, in August 2009, 71.7% of all desktops were running XP, compared to a mere 18.8% running Vista. That means the great majority of Windows users will have to try to migrate from XP to 7.

I use the word "migrate" deliberately instead of "update" or "upgrade" because this will be a migration. If you are among the small minority using Vista, you can upgrade to 7 without any fuss or muss, so long as the move is between equivalent versions like Vista Home Premium and Windows 7 Home Premium -- or if you're jumping up, for example, to Windows 7 Ultimate.

I only wish that were the case for XP. The only way you can get from XP to Windows 7 is to do a clean install. Period. End of statement.

What's involved with a clean install, you ask? It means you erase every last program and file on your hard disk during the "upgrade." Ow.

You can save some of it. Microsoft's Windows Easy Transfer, which comes in Windows 7, will let you save your files and settings. Of course, some of those settings may not work anymore with Windows 7, but that's a relatively minor pain.

The major headache is that you can't transfer your old programs and device drivers from XP to Windows 7. So, do you know where your install disk is for Quicken 2008? How about Office 2003? Or, for that matter, do you really want to download iTunes and Firefox, plus a half-dozen must-have Firefox extensions, all over again? Well, you'd better know what you have on your current XP system, and you'd better be ready to reinstall them all and reset them to just the way you like them, because that's exactly what you're going to need to do.

For an individual, that's annoying. It took me two or three hours, but I'm always installing and updating operating systems. Microsoft estimates that heavy users, people with 125GB of data and 40 applications, would need between 2 hours and 40 minutes and 5 hours and 43 minutes to upgrade their systems. A super user could take close to 20 hours. But wait, those Microsoft numbers are for Vista to Windows 7! XP to Windows 7 can take much longer. At best, I suspect we're looking at a full day for heavy users to make the migration. Now, imagine multiplying that by a business' dozens to tens of thousands of PCs. That's not just a headache; it's the kind of major suffering that companies try to avoid whenever humanly possible.


Let's say you have 100 PCs in your business running XP and you want to move them to Windows 7. Assume it will take eight hours per PC to do the job. Using the Bureau of Labor Statistics' hourly wage numbers for computer support specialists from May 2008, the latest numbers that are available, the total cost of the labor needed to complete the upgrade process would be $17,832.

I'm presuming, of course, that your business is using a standardized software package and that you have all the program install disks at hand. If you don't, your bill is going to be much, much higher and of course, you have to add to your bill the licensing fees for Windows 7.

While Linux upgrades are free and Mac OS Snow Leopard costs $29 for Leopard users, you'll need to pay a pretty penny for Windows 7. If you upgrade from, say, Windows Vista Business to Windows 7 Professional, it will cost you $199 per PC. I presume that Microsoft will offer a similar deal to XP Pro users. If not, it will run you $299 retail for Win 7 Pro.

But let's assume Microsoft is going to cut you some slack. Still, our 100-PC company has to shell out nearly 20 grand, $19,900, for its Win 7 licenses. So, all together, that's $37,732 for the Windows 7 migration. Perhaps you're thinking that's not too bad. Except -- whoops! -- most older XP systems don't have the hardware to run Windows 7. Windows 7 "officially" requires a 1 GHz processor, 1GB of memory, 16GB of free hard drive space and 128MB of graphics memory on a chip set or card capable of supporting DirectX 9.

But don't believe this official version. In my Windows 7 testing, starting with Build 7000 to the RTM (release to manufacturing) version, I've found that 7 requires at least a 1.6-GHz processor and 2GB of RAM to run at an acceptable level. So, I think it's a good bet that many XP users are going to need to upgrade their RAM. The average price for a stick of 1GB RAM seems to be about $30. Of course, you'll need to install it, so let's throw in another $5,229 for our 100-PC business for that.

Now we're just shy of $42,961. I won't even mention the time and cost of getting users to relearn how to use their computers. It's not that Windows 7 is all that different from XP, but it is different enough to slow users down.

Does your IT budget have enough money to migrate to Windows 7? Maybe. But is it worth it?

I like Windows 7. It's much better than Vista. But if you were to ask me to name the one feature that makes it a step up from XP, I'd be left speechless.

If you also can't think of a good, sound business reason to upgrade to Windows 7, you'll be a lot better off ignoring Windows 7 when it finally arrives on Oct. 22.

In 2009, you have to be more aware of your bottom line than ever. When you have to replace your XP-running PCs, you can move to Windows 7, but until they fall apart under your users' hands, I wouldn't move to Windows 7. It's just not worth the time, money or annoyance.